Originally Posted By: kissak
I told him that actions speak louder than words and that I wanted to give him a chance, but couldnt as long as the OW was in the pic. I told him that he hadnt changed and i was hearing the same stuff I have heard before. He still stands by the fact that he still loves and wants to be with the OW, but really doesnt know if it will work with them....

He called me tonight and I told him that it would probably be best if he didnt contact me for a while until he got his head on straight (or out of his a**).


Kissak! You did great!!! You have come so far over the last few months. It sounds like you finally know what you need and deserve and you communicated it to h. I say keep doing what you've been doing over the last few weeks.


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08