Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[hopeful4her]

I am right with you, Kat. I am new to the site and have been following Hope's and Doing My Best threads as we are also in very similar situations. I have been on a roller coaster for the past 2 years, and reading Hopes thread has given me a new strength of what I know I really need to do.

Hope, betcha never figured that you'd be giving someone inspiration through your s****y experience. I hope and pray to reconcile with my wife and be able to give testimony to others that are going through the same thing, but I know now that I also have to protect myself and my little girls from her destructive ways and the otm. She wants out, she will be doing it alone. No more letting have her cake and eat it too ( I hate that saying, but appropriate). I will no longer be giving and giving and her just taking and taking. I hope you don't mind, but I may even plagiarize a bit of your letters.