JC today- it went well, we focused mostly on h's family issues. I told him that I was proud of him for trying to deal with these difficult emotions. Afterward, I may have slipped up on the DBing, but I asked him if he was going to put his wedding ring back on. He said he would. I joked about it a bit to try to lighten the mood. I have to keep telling myself not to expect to see it back on his finger too soon.