Do I need to shut it down for now and wait on the DBing? If I do that, is there a hope I can stave off the D? I'm confused and it brings me down to think about it. I'm scheduling my 3rd call w/ the DB coach tomorrow, so that is my main focus -- "How to act as if..."
You don't have any control over the "D" train. Your wife is driving it. You focus on RTL and Grace. When you talk to W, talk about the Mariners game, your workouts at the gym, the silly things your students say/do--small talk. Those are upbeat subjects, and they don't put you at any legal risk.
