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You seem to handle everything with your H all in stride...good for you.

I hope your H will get past his anger soon and figures out what he needs to do to be a better dad. Your D needs him...too bad he can't see that right now.

Lissie, as always, is right on. Be there for your D...talk to her...listen to her...be strong for her...she will be fine because she has you.

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Thanks Upside. I just have to be who I am and let H get through this.

Ithink H is getting ther. H has gained weight -more than he has since he left. I find that odd. He was even eating junk food. When he left he was trying to get inthe best shap and would not even eat a bite of junk food. Hmmmm


Well my small miracle...

MIL emailed me a thank you for some pictures I sent of D7.
First time in two years. Signed off with MOM.

It really touched my heart.


I have sent pictures before but never heard anything.

Have a great day everyone.

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Originally Posted By: kikifree


Well my small miracle...

MIL emailed me a thank you for some pictures I sent of D7.
First time in two years. Signed off with MOM.

It really touched my heart.


I have sent pictures before but never heard anything.

Have a great day everyone.



Aww bless, that is lovely. I was touched when my MIL made a connection with me some time back so I know how you feel.

Have a great day too.
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Me 40
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Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
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kiki,

Life is full of little wonders. \:\)

You have a great day too.

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Thank you Nutty and Grace.

It just a small wonder in this big fiasco.

Thank you ladies. Hope all is well in your neck of the woods

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H just came and picked up D7 from school.

I had a note for him about D7. He threw it back at me. I told him he had to take it it was our communication. and then took off in his car. As he did, he didn't wait until I moved out of the way and almost hit me.

A parent and the Principal both came to ask me what was going on.

Why is he soo angry...who knows!

I was mortified

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kikifree, That's awful that your H almost ran you over. Sounds like he is very angry about something. Don't take it personally since it doesn't sound like you have done anything wrong. Maybe seeing you reminded him of his guilt. To feel better about the guilt, he got angry - anger causes an endorphin boost.
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Ha Plenty , when I read"almost ran you over" it makes me laugh.

H was one never to make scenes but I guess he doesnt really care anymore.

I let it bother me for a little bit yesterday, the way he treats me. I smile ,treat him as a human but he feels the ned t otreat me like a dog.

I just wish I could know WHY or WHAT makes him so mean ?

This morning , he dropped D7 off but did not bring her to my room as usual.

Well, It is Friday!!! I am very happy to start the weekend!!!!

have a Blessed Day!!!!

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You know what Keekers.....

What your going through.....been there done that. Almost lost an arm!

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I's say email me but.......


Change the Policy.
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Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!

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I just wish I could know WHY or WHAT makes him so mean ?
I think we all know...Guilt...it is why he can't get past it that is the question.

Hope you have a good weekend...and say out of the way of your H's car.

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