H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[Evie]

Sent my email, this is his reply;

am really sorry but I cannot give you another 6 months - we need to sit down and discuss things including the business and house etc etc. It has been nearly 8 months since I left home - if I leave it another 6 months who is to say you will be ready then

If the house goes for sale it may well take 12months to sell - it may not even sell at all and to wait another 6 months before we take any action is really silly. If the house is sorted in 18 months time you put your self near the point off having a 15/20 year mortgage which will be very expensive.

As far as trusting you - I'm really sorry but I'm not sure I do.

I am very close to going financially bump - I cannot even afford a leather football for S1 at the moment - I can't even afford to put my heating on and have to shower and shave at the School or at the gym.

I am paying into the joint account £1200 p/month and I cannot do this anymore.

I am not a ba***rd and it's not in my nature to be hard. I have supported you and DD's even when their dad gave up work for two years - I still worked my ass off to give you all I could.

I am in tears for our current situation - I was hoping we could really sit down but you still won't. I have not got a bad bone in my body, I love the boys more than I can say BUT I can't go on like this any more - I even have an interview next week to get a part time job working nights.



DD are XHs responsibilities not mine - D2 cannot even say hello and when she came round for S1's breakfast she didn't even say a word not even a thank you.

I have today cancelled the direct debit of £700 into the business account and the £500 from my account. The business account is active and I give you my word I wont spend a penny - it will remain until we start to discuss. I have also cancelled your company debit card and your right to sign cheques.

I have just completed all the forms to go limited with you having full rights to the account including debit card etc etc and have forms for you to fill in.

I have no want at the moment for the limited account to go live as we will have no flexibility what so ever as to what and when we take out money.

I have also taken out £500 cash from the safe and have banked it - from now on I think it only right we bank every penny and we cash up every day. There is enough money in there for S1 and his lessons for the next 8wks



It breaks my heart to have done this - but we need to talk and cant go on like this - I have never made so much money and have had so little - you on the other hand have less council tax, a smaller food bill, more tax credit, your salary and £1200.00 going into the joint account – some of our close friends have all said do you really expect Yvette to sit down with you!!!

I will set up another standing order for 20% of my net salary into the joint account for the boys - the 20% is the amount the CSA recommend.


I don't want to stop paying anything but at the moment I don't know where I stand and you wont sit down and discuss matters with me.

I stand by not going through a solicitor and I will be more than generous in what you have from our estate - I am more than willing to come away with less but we need to discuss matters