What a nice and sensible post to read. Give her the benfit of the doubt. Enjoy it when she moves back and remember not to revert to old habits - it's very easy to do; my H and I have to constantly keep a check on that. And be aware that it is very common for YOU to have doubts about it all once she comes back - it was once I felt my M was safe again that I had to deal with a whole rush of negative feelings about my H and what he had put me through - I just wasn't expecting that.
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Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
