Still hanging in there. I am starting to lose faith that I will be able to save my marriage. I'm not sure what is going on with me, but I am starting to get really discouraged. It has been a month now that H and I are separated. He doesn't miss me at all, and he says he is happy. I'm just feeling really down about this right now. I want more than anything to be able to work this out, but the reality of my situation is really starting to take hold of me. Any advice? Is this just a normal phase?