h is in full affair mode now. Came home last night and talked to her on our porch for over an hour (I knowthis because I accidentally heard part of the convo when i was in the bathroom and the window was open.
He is also not coming home tonight, as he informed me. We have a large house so being separate isn't a problem logistically, just emotionally. We can't sep. right now for financial reasons.
I really need help. HOW can I detatch while he is doing this now basically without care and so blatenly? (sorry for misspellings). I know I have to detatch and maybe it will get easier but I cannot believe the lack of respect right now.
Also, I am thinking of getting an emergency custody thing(can't remember exact name of document) from our county (ny state allows this). It basically gives me temp. full custody until perm. custody is dealt with (no papers have been filed for anything as of right now). I don't want him taking my kid near this woman, I feel like I have to protect her and myself. This really isn't a revenge thing for me. Will this fuel the fire?
