IMHO, if you both agree that you are not really M anymore, it's not an issue. Since I'm not advocating this for anyone else, I don't think it needs to be an issue on my thread.
****************************************
So, I'm waiting for my L to finish up what I hope will be my final offer. I've accepted H's offer, but there are a few loose ends that were not put in it (e.g. health insurance deductibles, dog expenses).
Mortgage rates have dropped again, so that's good for me. I've got a variable rate (or at least, I will when the funds are actually disbursed), as the rates are expected to keep dropping for the next couple of years.
This is going to be my first summer in four years w/o major marriage issues to worry about, assuming the D is done by then - which it should be. In 04, things were starting to get really bad; in 05, he left; in 06, it was all the S stress; 07 was that plus working on the D. Oh boy, it will be nice to have a summer for myself, mentally at least. It will give me a good chance to really get myself together and be independent, and also relax a bit!
Oh yeah, Mr. Hottie was in a documentary on tv the other night, about his work (not in English). *sigh* He's such a cutie! He was very excited about it, and it was actually very interesting, and not just b/c I like watching him, lol!
Have a good day all!
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan