LO, My blood would be boiling! She is trying to be the mommy! But she is far from that, nor is she even a step-mother. She crossed a huge boundary. I would have been on the phone with her to say, as politely as I could, please don't cut my child's hair anymore. If she thinks she can do that, what else is she going to do? Your D is not her child. Period. TAL is right, it's unacceptable.
