Thank you for your comment, we are working through it. i have not, nor will i ever use the A as a weapon. however it has came close. the reason she has tols me is that we are realgious, and felt that her soul was in jepardy. she also felt that it was preventing us from continueing to get closer as H&W should be. there is just so much pain!!! hard to get through. just going day by day, just like a rollarcoaster.