He think new me is temporary and once he comes back to me I would go back to old me, boaring person. He says I am working on myself only for him to look at me.
I heard these words from my H, too. I don't know how many times he didn't ask me about my changes and my usual answer was, I don't want to be that person anymore. Keep on doing what you're doing, for yourself, and he will see YOU.
And keep on being mysterious, too! Go for RED nails next time (but I like peach, too).