Hope todays going better. Wouldn,t you need 2nd car to get to and from work and dentist appointments-gosh you seem to have an awlful lot of those. How is H and lump can you actually feel it or do you think it is maybe stress related anxiety pains. I had a chest pains and dificulty swallowing in the early days but they didn,t find anything and it went-however I did get stomach ulcers-poor diet and stress I guess. There have been huge leaps in mental health issues so praphs H may not know it all now given it was many years ago when he did a course. But getting him to see that may not be possible. Interesting points ACJ made I think sometimes we expect them to come back and be as they were long before the bomb ie early days of marriage and if the real him was dissatisfied in general before it is not going to be easy to change -but not impossible. This is real early days I guess in the returning home and its already been longer than the last time right.So thats good-isn't it. I guess you just do what you are instictively doing and pray for better days. You are happy he is home and feel you can't set boundaries so I guess its day by day month by month year by year! Hope you get some joy in your life this week-end.
