M, how are things going for you today? Any change in your sitch?
No, no change. Still waiting on papers to be served. She is staying home and I am there also. I suspect that she will have them served at my workplace. Problem with that is this (not a problem for me, but for her I suppose) I work at a big company that is very very secure. It has it's own security, own fire department. It is a city in a city. Anyway there are many entry and exit points, so if she is having them served here, outside the county we live in then I think it may be a few days before I get them. Logical thing would be to have them served at my house, but there's nothing logical about what she is doing. We have another MC session Tuesday. That may be either a good or bad thing. I don't know if she's going back or not. I am keeping the appointment.
There is one thing that happened yesterday. Due to the venom she spit on Monday night I forgot to set the coffee pot for Tuesday morning. We live in a log home so the house and me are a little noisy at 5:00am every morning. I got up and made coffee, which in turn woke the dog up which in turn woke her up. I went about my business of getting ready to go to work. She went back to bed. I got in the car and accidently hit the button for the garage door opener by mistake, the garage door slightly opened, the door is under my D2 bedroom so I know it made a lot of noise. I caught the door before it fully opened and got it shut then stood outside and listened. I did not hear anything in the house so I went on to work. Around 2:00pm yesterday I sent her an email asking if she was bringing our D home after work or if she was staying somewhere else?? Also apoligized for accidently hitting the button for the garage door and waking her while I was leaving. She replied back that she thought I hit the garage door button ON PURPOSE and that she was bringgind D home after stopping by the WICKED WITCHES house (her mom). This was my reply, I thought I did OK, some of you may not think so.
Kim, you must understand one thing and I know it’s hard for you to. I am not a SOB who would intentionally hit a garage door opener to wake a daughter who I love more than anything in this world at 5:00am. You can choose to believe that I am and I truly understand why you would think of me that way. I’m sorry that thought crossed your mind. I am sorry that there was drama last night. It was not my intention. Due to the drama I forgot to set the coffee pot, which in turn woke you and I apologize for that. If I’m waking you in the morning on a regular basis then please let me know and I will forgo the coffee and change the way I go out as to not disturb you. In the future I suggest all relationship talk be confined to counseling night. Just as we had been doing. Co-Exist in the house, keep the house running as normal as possible with as little drama as possible, for you, Caleigh, the animals and me
You guys can let me kniow how I did with the reply. You all know better than I.
