Then again D is just a word and a bunch of papers. You keep saying how much your H has loved you. I, for one, am a firm believer that love doesn't just go away. How many times can you really truly love with all your heart? Second "true love"? In a period of time - let me see - 6 months? I don't think so! I think he is in for rude awakening.
So much has happened so fast for you, normally it takes much longer and WAS has time to reconsider his/her actions. Here is link to a very helpful post, if I didn't send it to you yet. It gives an idea of how long it takes to wait out MLC. 6 stages of MLC
It helped me a lot to realize what's happening and what to expect next.
Hang in there, (((hugs))).
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08