((((nlt)))), I'm so sorry that your D is final.

Then again D is just a word and a bunch of papers. You keep saying how much your H has loved you. I, for one, am a firm believer that love doesn't just go away. How many times can you really truly love with all your heart? Second "true love"? In a period of time - let me see - 6 months? I don't think so! I think he is in for rude awakening.

So much has happened so fast for you, normally it takes much longer and WAS has time to reconsider his/her actions. Here is link to a very helpful post, if I didn't send it to you yet. It gives an idea of how long it takes to wait out MLC.
6 stages of MLC

It helped me a lot to realize what's happening and what to expect next.

Hang in there, (((hugs))).


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08