you seem confused again and I am tired of this merry go round you keep inviting me on and I am getting off. I told him that this was all about what HE wants and that he needed to take the time to figure it out...he still said he didnt want to do that...I told him to just go to bed and he would feel different tomorrow.
You are so right about the time. It has always seems (And I have told you plenty of time) that he is so far from right, that this is a long-term recovery effort. You obviously recognize this when you said:
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I cant count on anything from him right now, maybe never...who knows.
And there in lies the key for you. There are just some things we don't need in this life. We don't need unstable people to pull us down. We can only change the things about ourselves which are destructive. We can't do it for others and we can't expect them to do it for themselves. That would be self-destructive.
