Another email today, H escalated and threatened taking me to court. I responded with as much of an answer as I had and tried to be kind. Just got more crap from him. I have decided that if he keeps emailing me after out agreement, I am just going to have to block him.
After telling me he wanted to put all of this behind us so that we could develop a new R and work together on things. Today he told me he didn't want to talk to me at all unless he absolutely had to.
It is easy for him to be hurtful with me when it is just email. When he talks to me on the phone, he can't be hurtful. In fact last time he was actually somewhat loving when he talked to me. H must be in some real financial crisis. He is not helping with any graduation for college stuff but is asking for me to return money he gave to me 2 years ago. I don't have it and I am not going to argue with him anymore.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.