zuma, Yeah, sounds unfair. I am sure your lawyer will help you figure this out. I hope you are able to get a good lawyer. It's wonderful you have 3 daughters to share your life with. It's understandable that you would feel so hurt from the family breakup. In the meantime, try to read up as much as you can on how heal yourself and at the same time learn how to relate amicably with your W. Regardless of what happens, you will have to communicate with her the rest of your life, because of your kids.
