What I am hearing is a person who has certain specific needs and requirements in his sex life that were never met by your W ? I mean everyone is different and has these thingys ? I know I do ?.. and they are nothing to feel guilty about, eh ?
Communication obviously is the key to that sort of thing. You have tried that it seems ? Counseling is next.. you have also tried that with her also ?..
I am not sure what to tell you.. but you cannot change your requirements in that department.. that is YOU.
