Nutty....you may know my friend frank_d here. Frank_d suffered quite a bit in trying to save his M. I respect him. At times when I would have thrown in the towel, frank kept me going. It's easy to say now, using the retrospectoscope, that I should have filed 15 months ago.

No.

I learned much from frank_d's insight. He taught me a lot about myself. Sadly, he struggles now within his own M. But..Nutty...some of the most powerful pieces of advice or support can sometimes be, well, of few words. So, I share with you a short email that my friend frank_d wrote to me:

Originally Posted By: frank_d

You'll be OK

Nutty....you'll be OK. And, I agree with you, it's taken me a long time to realize that, filing for divorce as a 'member' of the divorcebusting community....is not abominable. In fact, it may be lifesaving.

HUGS.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;