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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK cagzmom #1413144 04/10/08 12:31 AM
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forward Member F Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071	Trusting, I think the dark is good for us because it helps us adjust to taking care of ourselves and not worrying about every little thing they do. You may need to go a long time. I think I will have to go a long time. But don't let your H's indirect attacks on you let you feel you are making a bad decision. Dark is boundaries and peace for you, and when it feels more peaceful for you, that is a good thing. The fact that your H had the need to compare your past R w/his current one says that he has NOT moved on. He is racked with guilt, I think. M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D

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BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/06/08 03:32 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	sgctxok	04/06/08 04:09 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	ShadesofGrey	04/06/08 04:27 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	peacetoday	04/06/08 06:36 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Cinderellaman	04/06/08 06:51 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/06/08 10:45 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/07/08 03:22 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/07/08 03:02 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/07/08 03:28 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/07/08 09:10 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	forward	04/08/08 12:03 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/08/08 01:23 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/08/08 02:01 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	sleeper	04/08/08 02:34 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/09/08 02:11 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/09/08 11:29 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	enlightenbylife	04/09/08 11:32 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	kikifree	04/09/08 12:53 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Grace_O	04/09/08 01:58 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/09/08 02:36 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	forward	04/10/08 12:31 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/10/08 12:08 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/11/08 12:32 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	peacetoday	04/11/08 01:00 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/11/08 01:33 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/11/08 12:40 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	kikifree	04/11/08 01:09 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Jeanette1120	04/11/08 01:29 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Treese	04/11/08 02:28 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/12/08 01:51 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	peacetoday	04/12/08 02:10 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/12/08 03:34 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/14/08 01:28 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/14/08 01:37 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/14/08 01:37 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/14/08 02:41 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/14/08 02:53 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/15/08 02:25 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/15/08 03:36 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Nutty Chick	04/15/08 08:34 AM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	ACJ	04/17/08 09:07 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/19/08 03:24 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	forward	04/19/08 06:10 PM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/20/08 08:13 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/22/08 01:02 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/22/08 01:23 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/22/08 04:16 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/22/08 10:34 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	peacetoday	04/22/08 11:06 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	forward	04/23/08 12:07 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	kikifree	04/23/08 12:23 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	theotherhalf	04/23/08 01:38 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/23/08 02:28 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/23/08 03:11 AM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	forward	04/24/08 12:42 AM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Nutty Chick	04/24/08 07:54 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/24/08 12:18 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/25/08 12:07 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	Jeanette1120	04/25/08 01:33 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/26/08 03:52 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/26/08 03:54 PM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	peacetoday	04/26/08 07:42 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/26/08 09:34 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/27/08 01:02 AM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/28/08 10:55 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	04/29/08 04:01 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	04/29/08 01:02 PM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	peacetoday	05/01/08 02:44 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	TRUSTING	05/09/08 01:28 AM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	kikifree	05/09/08 01:43 AM
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Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	cagzmom	05/10/08 03:47 PM
Re: BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK	glamgirl	05/10/08 11:05 PM
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