I read most of your painful story. I also may be headed for the final of a D very soon and it appears that it will cost me a lot financially. However, my W seems to be coming around a bit, and in the rare chance that she does, we would require marriage counseling to help rebuild our M. I am curious if you are in the Portland area and if you had any good recommendations for solution oriented marriage counselors.
BTW... I too will be thinking hard about a pre-nup if ever I get married again.
