Yes, it is. He made his bed and he needs to lie in it, in my opinion.
Why are you sheltering him from the consequences of his infidelity and his disrespectful and hurtful behavior, Neecy?
Puppy
I'm wondering myself....Not so much about the infidelity anymore....but the behavior.....and the likelihood that another raging outburst will occur.....????
I DO hope that I am wrong.
(((((((Neecy,)))))))
If this is really what you want, then I would tell H EXACTLY what you EXPECT from him. Controlling? Yes, but under the current circumstances, I would expect you to do NOTHING LESS.
He f*ed up, BIG TIME. LAY DOWN YOUR BOUNDARIES AND SEE THEM THROUGH. AA should DEFINITELY be in there.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
