Went to get leagal advice today...and the Divorce process begins....I hate this...I am strong one moment and then the thought of my family breaking up ...kills me...I also will be moving into a larger apartment to fix up a place for my girls so they can start staying overnite with me....The three of them and me in a 2 bedroom apartment while the wife lives in a 4100 sq ft 5 bedroom house on 2 acres not to mention the 70,000 pool....hardly seems fair after I supported her through law school......Get over it..............venting.