Your D was final yesterday. It has all happened so fast for you - less than a year from the time your H met OW to divorce. Let out your emotions of sadness, anger. Allow yourself to have a really good cry. Then try to gain composure before H comes by to get his stuff on the weekend and be friendly towards him - you don't have to overdo it but be pleasant. Don't contact him about your job interview, in fact don't contact him AT ALL. Let him possibly miss you. BTW, you've been doing a great job of going dark.
From everything you've described, it is evident that your H did love you very much. Those feelings must still be there somewhere. For now, you have to move on as if your H does not come back.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
