Have you thought about NOT spending the night before your trip together? That's another night. I also think it will make her anticipate the trip, and seeing you, more.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09