Puppy, I love your line about No decision being a decision and its precisely what I need to say in my sitch. Thanks.

H4U, I'm almost at the same point as you are and the other side is starting to look better everyday, but since you do still have some hope for reconcilliation, give her the opportunity to do whatever it is that she needs to do and be willing to let the chips fall where they may.

Good luck and may the best situation for you and your sons be the outcome!

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option