I don't know whether or not he'll actually do it, but I am very pleased that he's at least open to the IDEA of it. Of course, I haven't told him about the follow-up weekends as I think that would scare him off. It's all about baby steps for me towards this right now. First see if he's open to the idea. Good. Then as the day comes closer, make sure he's actually willing to go. (Already have a weekend babysitter lined up.) Then mention the follow-up weekends and let the program explain them.
At the very least, if we still end up divorced I will feel better if we've really, really tried to make this work. Our kids, and hopes and dreams at the beginning of our marriage, deserve that.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
