but I have to say since my H moved out I am living in so much more peace & serenity than before.
I will admit to you that I have, just since these last revelations over the weekend, started feeling that way as well. I'm so weary of the waiting and wondering when the 'move-out' shoe will drop... H may even be there (with or without OW) right now checking it out.
It's still the whole idea about the timing of all this as it relates to my S18 college plans that hurts so much...this was very much a long term plan and dream for H and me, and I'm grieving this.