Foreign Spouse-One foot out the door- HELP

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S
Sorry you find yourself here
From my experience, there is little we can do to persuade these H to stay
they get this idea that if life were another way, they would be happy and they believe
Its almost like they have to go to figure it all out
in my case my H checked out 14 months ago
said he didnt want to be M anymore
he visits frequently as we have 2 kids but he looks terrible and doesnt look happy
so although he thought I was the problem- he is rid of me and still miserable
and they still cant figure it out
it takes a long time
for you
practice validating H
being upbeat
no pleading or begging
Gal stay busy find friend or Therapy to get it out
and let him go
some return- many do not
its out of our hands
and we growe in acceptance
it just takes time
peace