Let me show you what deal breakers look like to me...
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But, he still loves her and the big fight they had that supposedly brought him back to me, could have been avoided.
Uhm, ok. You want to come back to me, but you still love her and think that things might have worked out with her if your fight had turned out differently? Sorry. Still cooking apparently.
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He says he has feelings for me, not like her though.
So you're ok with being second best in your husbands eyes? Wow. Wouldn't work for me, no thank you.
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He said he has seen the changes he can make in our marriage that would make it work, but also knows he can work on things with her.
Uhm, ok dude. Go get your work done with her then. I'm not here as a fall back plan. I'm not here because you had a bad fight and aren't talking right now. Most of all, I'm not here because I just happen to be your flavor of the day. No thanks. Again, he's still not done cooking yet.
WHY?
WHY would you want BACK the man who can say these things to you?
What happens when the next hot babe enters his life in a year, or two, or three?
Even better - what happens after he comes back and the two of YOU have a big fight that doesn't turn out right? Who does he run to then?
Your call Kissak.
I guess it depends on just how badly you want to be able to say that you're reconciling.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
