ms ladybug concerned...MR bug wants to move home.

[Dom R]

Here's a whacky suggestion:
take him up on his offer of marriage counselling.

Set a date in the near future. then tell him you dont want to talk to him again until you see him with the counsellor that day.

Then when you get there, make the #1 first thing on the agenda, his lack of anger control.


That should both protect you from future angry confrontations from him, AND make him prove whether or not he's serious about working on your marriage.

Clearly, the #1 thing that HE has to work on, is that.
If he's not going to work on it with the counsellor, then he's not "working on the marriage", and you can dump his sorry butt with a clearer concience