Help me act AS IF, Thread 4

[thegoodfight]

Yeah,

I have been there also since my agreement is friends living together for the children's sake. I have thought what you thought, package deal. heck she still wants to do things as a family and go out of town to see my family. I really spent a lot of time struggling with it. Came to realize do I really want to put my own interests before my kids.

I know what you are thinking your not the own that wants the D. or seperation, again I can relate. I don't have the answer but think good and hard, I personally think you have a better chance staying as close togehter as you can. I also believe it is the best thing for the kids as long as it does not foster conflict.

Having said all that you would make a huge sacrifice agreeing to it, I know it hurts every day, but I think of our son and he is totally innocent and I know what he would say if he understood and I know what type of example I want to show him.

Sometimes the best thing is to put others before yourself, but only if you can handle it. Trust me it is not fun sometimes. I am very sorry we are all in the position we are in.