SF sorry for your problems I too am following your situation after all they have been through they still dont realize it is them that have to look at themselves keep praying you are doing amazingly well and we appreciate your insights it is very helpful for us to know the possibilities of a return will be so difficult hopefully your H will become aware of the fact that he needs to change too so as hard as it was before, this is a step harder you will figure it out, what you need to do and hopefully god will speak louder to your H Is he alcoholic? Is the drinking worse now than before he left? Do you know anyone In AA? Is that a possibility? peace
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