SH
I like it
everything you said
and if it feels right one last ditch effort is ok especially if you see H a little more open than previously
Especially to see if anything happens..if H opens up



either way, I believe if we can keep somewhat of a nice R with H (even if no reconciliation) its a win
for the kids to see some kind of friendship
I also see my H doing things for us financially, time with kids, fixing house ect
although this is not waht I want and I may need a period of total NC if we D, I think the small friendship will be in the long run positive
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow