SH I like it everything you said and if it feels right one last ditch effort is ok especially if you see H a little more open than previously Especially to see if anything happens..if H opens up
either way, I believe if we can keep somewhat of a nice R with H (even if no reconciliation) its a win for the kids to see some kind of friendship I also see my H doing things for us financially, time with kids, fixing house ect although this is not waht I want and I may need a period of total NC if we D, I think the small friendship will be in the long run positive peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow