Next Steps for W2G (4th Thread)

[addie]

W2G,
I know how disappointed you must be feeling.
Two weeks ago my H told me he wanted to move back and take things very slow. The following day he was having second thoughts about it and for now has decided it's not a good idea because he's still confused and doesn't want to get my hopes up.
I understand this is very common for the WAS - they move forward, then distance themselves again. I've read some of the success stories and this type of behaviour can go on for a long time.
Try to keep your expectations low at this point (it's hard not to have any expectations after all that's happened lately) and focus on all the positives. Patience, and more patience!!!