Thanks Pup. Not sure what is so difficult that she needs to think about it. 4 simple steps. I've already discussed the 4 things I need from her with DS19 and told him if she couldn't agree to do those then she wasn't serious and I would move forward with filing for separation/divorce. He agrees with me completely. He even asked me "what could be so terrible to say you'll never talk to the jerk again (and put it in writing to OM) and then read a book or two on marriage recovery after an affair if she's really serious?" I said "EXACTLY".
She better figure this out soon or I'll be the walk away spouse. I'm about at that point now. I've taken a look at the other side and to be honest, it looks pretty darn good.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
