I noticed that H had printed off current info from an condo/apartment building he had looked at last year when he talked about moving out...they are furnished places, either studios or 1 BR. Still $750/mo... yuck...
...back from lunch with my friend...a good time...she even got me to laugh while imitating how H would (or would not) be able to deal with OW's good bit younger boys!!
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That had to be upsetting to find out about the apartment info, but I have to say since my H moved out I am living in so much more peace & serenity than before. H was obsessed with the OW and it was really torture to live that way every day & not good for the kids I don't think either. Of course, your H may not move out anyway.
I do this too, find humor in the fact that H will have to deal with the OW's kids who friends (that know them) tell me are dysfunctional (one child is anorexoric, the OW allows her D13 to drink and go out, etc. and her D13 is supposedly very hard to get along with). I think a lot of the MLC stuff the H's are going through is really fantasy thinking: my H has told me everything will be perfect for he, the kids, and I after divorce!!! I think stuff like that is probably a good reality check for them!!! Karen
Karen