Reading about OW cutting your D's hair (even if it had been a good cut!!) made my heart just ache, and my blood boil!
Theoden is so right; even if you do have 50/50 custody, you absolutely should be involved in ALL decisions, esp. for such a young child (my younger son is 12, and if/when I get to this point, my H d*mn well better still not let OW pull similar crap...)
I hope you give H what-for over this...
S18 and I are flying into Cedar Rapids next Thurs. to go visit Grinnell...any of you Iowans from up that way?? I'll have a free Friday night to burn in the big city of Grinnell....
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and Theoden, you don't know me from thin air, but you really are a king...I watched a good bit of LOTR last weekend, and imagined you... just wanted to let you know how much your posts always resonate with me!