You sound wonderful mamma.

I used to be so stressed about Javier being a good dad. I did the same. bend over backwards, and try. He would just take and take.

Slowly, I am letting go, of that.

As long as I do my job as a great mom.

Just like you are doing.

ANd honey, the kids know.

The know the difference between Disney Dad,, and I need a real parent right now.

Does that totally sick? Absolutely.

Our babies, for some reason, have been dealt this crappy dad card.

And don't get me wrong, Javier is a good mediocre dad. But My babies, and your D Deserve a great dad.

So you keep doing what you are doing, If he did not pick her up. Hey it's his loss.

If you do not make it abig deal in front of your D, then she will follow your lead.

Let her talk about her feelings with you. Like you do.

It sucks that our kids have to get treated like 2nd best. But as long as WE treat them like the treasures that they are.

I know they will be ok.

Luv ya

thanks for passing by too.

Besos

Live Simply
Love Generously
Care Deeply
Speak Kindly
Leave the rest to God