I know it's hard to "visit" your kids. I also know that with the kids not in their daily lives they get distracted. It appears that it would be easier to have the kids schedule fit theirs. Truth is that kids have activities and friends they want in their lives. As they get older their lives just seem to get busier. He needs to recognize that he needs to have the "intent" and make the time to see D7 in a way that suits everybody, not just him. Sometimes I am just amazed that a WAS seems to think there are no negative consequences to their actions. That isn't a judgment on why they made the choice, but the fact is they did and it creates lots of stress and disappointment for everybody. That he's being pushy about what he wants and when, well, sometimes it just stinks to be you. I know you'll find a solution, but it can be difficult getting there.
