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BigHands #1412484 04/09/08 12:26 PM
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(((Mucho hugs, Julie.)))

Here's hoping that your Wednesday will be better, then Thursday will top that, and Friday will knock your socks off. \:\)


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BigHands #1412485 04/09/08 12:28 PM
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Goodmorning Boxer. ;\)

Well I come with HUGS. B/c in case you have not heard, my hugs, cure stuff. Yeah. It has to be a good tight hug, not one of those ass out hugs.

So HUG #1 To say, I am sorry, and to let you know it is ok, and we will be here for you, when you need to mourn that past.

and Hug #2, To say Congratulations, on the wonderful start of your new life.

And Hug #3, To say thank you, for being awesome, and for teaching me.

Luv ya

Lissett

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Lissie #1412522 04/09/08 01:03 PM
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Well I come with HUGS. B/c in case you have not heard, my hugs, cure stuff. Yeah.


I've heard this. Even as far away as the Midwest. Your hugs are legendary!

Morning Julius,

Hope today is a good one to start off your new chapter.

Love you and will keep you in my thoughts!

Bethie

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she does give good hugs

you need a t-shirt Cookiepants


and

there is a secret handshake??? Maybe that is why all my shite went to shite...I didn't know about the handshake

Julie...if you know the handshake can you teach it to me...maybe it will get us discounts at the movies

and

you can always pull the single mom card now
(back off everyone...sometimes you need to use it)


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fig............

You are how many months post divorce and you still don't know the handshake? What is wrong with you? You know that you have to have that down before you can move on. Now this explains a while lot!

Julie use this as an example.

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BethM #1412573 04/09/08 02:07 PM
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jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepers

sorry

and I am like um....2 years give or take past the D!!!

ugh

is it over two years

I can't remember

I jut know I am never getting married in May again...
bad month

i need to know the handshake

I have a couple with the kids at school
is it similar
do you make things explode
or rocket into the air

I am so down with the handshakes

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Good morning LNF, Karen, SE, Rob, BH, Liss, Fig...

Thanks for stopping by. I woke up to a grey and gloomy day. Not doing wonders for my PMA. But, that really has nothing to do with being D now.

As far as PV goes, Karen, my trip just didn't work out. And it's for the best if I pay off bills instead of go. So I've paid for half of the stay and anyone who wants to go could do so for half price... just saying.

Thanks for the encouragement, the advice and the HUGS. I love the big tight hugs. Life is good. God is great. My kids are healthy. And it's a new day.

Julie


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I woke up to a grey and gloomy day. Not doing wonders for my PMA. But, that really has nothing to do with being D now.


So, whatever the reason, go with it and work through it. You are entitled to feel whatever mood you need to. No one is up all of the time and to think that you should be just means you are mistaken. Do you feel like you'll disappoint your friends? Cause I got news for you. That won't happen.

Besides, what about how you feel?

LOve,
Bethie

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and

gray and gloomy is good for snuggling under blankets and watching old movies

or

for having rain days in the shower with umbrellas

or

for hot buttered popcorn
and tents in the living room

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True dat, ladies...

I bumped into my personal C as I was coming out of my office this morning (her office is across the hall) so we chatted briefly. I mentioned how it would be nice to have a sunny day so I could 'fake it til I make it' and she was glad that the weather was more representative of my reality as 'things right now aren't all sunshine but that's ok because you know the sunshine will be back'. Interesting perspective as we laughed about how I tend to try to force my mood to fit the weather even if it's ok to be gloomy. Anywhoo... rambling a little there.

Just had coffee w/ a friend and that was nice. Heading off to lunch w/ D7. Fun times in julieville (scuse me jilly for borrowing).


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