You are how many months post divorce and you still don't know the handshake? What is wrong with you? You know that you have to have that down before you can move on. Now this explains a while lot!
Good morning LNF, Karen, SE, Rob, BH, Liss, Fig...
Thanks for stopping by. I woke up to a grey and gloomy day. Not doing wonders for my PMA. But, that really has nothing to do with being D now.
As far as PV goes, Karen, my trip just didn't work out. And it's for the best if I pay off bills instead of go. So I've paid for half of the stay and anyone who wants to go could do so for half price... just saying.
Thanks for the encouragement, the advice and the HUGS. I love the big tight hugs. Life is good. God is great. My kids are healthy. And it's a new day.
I woke up to a grey and gloomy day. Not doing wonders for my PMA. But, that really has nothing to do with being D now.
So, whatever the reason, go with it and work through it. You are entitled to feel whatever mood you need to. No one is up all of the time and to think that you should be just means you are mistaken. Do you feel like you'll disappoint your friends? Cause I got news for you. That won't happen.
I bumped into my personal C as I was coming out of my office this morning (her office is across the hall) so we chatted briefly. I mentioned how it would be nice to have a sunny day so I could 'fake it til I make it' and she was glad that the weather was more representative of my reality as 'things right now aren't all sunshine but that's ok because you know the sunshine will be back'. Interesting perspective as we laughed about how I tend to try to force my mood to fit the weather even if it's ok to be gloomy. Anywhoo... rambling a little there.
Just had coffee w/ a friend and that was nice. Heading off to lunch w/ D7. Fun times in julieville (scuse me jilly for borrowing).