She is hurt and angry and probably does not want to take accountablility for anything. This is a normal reaction from a WAS.
Go to the relay for life, do not let this minor setback deter you from what you want. That is a better you, think of it as practice for your future. Bring your daughter play with her. I know how it feels to be served, you are working on all these things and instead of rewards, it is wham, I want out.
Again she has made up her mind, that is fine, do not let her dictate what you want to become. These changes will only help you with her or with someone else. Stick with it, and of course it is okay to be sad, just try not to crumble around her, a few tears is okay.
As far as counseling goes, do it, what have you to lose, you need to be on good terms with your Ex, unfortunately she will always be in your life because you share children together.
This is not a war, nobody wins, she isn't winning and you loseing. Your D loses the family structure, it is up to you and your W. to minimize the hurt for you daughter.
I also agree don't leave until everything is settled if she wants out she can leave.
My best wishs to you and your family. You will get through this, this is not the end. Don't allow it to be pitfall, it is just a hurdle, you can continue to improve and you will find happiness within yourself. Trust me sticking to the plan is the way to go.
very good advice and I appreciate you very much for sharing. Your posts give me great strength and make me want to continue and not give up.
