I think TJ took his first bounce on the bottom.......he opened up to his sister the day after I got bomb #2.....lots of crying, and sincere efforts to get counseling.....and now he is invisible.
she said all the right things......
such as "I will never know if another woman will love you for you, but I know Holly does....its the real thing."
I believe this is possible because I am openly trusting God. I will go where He leads me, and I trust Him unconditionally. The biggest struggle I had was not contacting his sister, because I know her best guidance comes from God, and she and I both believe in TJ as a better man.....She is the first one to tell me that God gave her the immage of TJ, on the bottom, a mess. He also let her know that TJ will go to heaven. I think this means TJ will find his spirit and it will take him to where God wants him to be.
Praying and Letting Go,,,,,,,,, I hope this is meaningful to YOU.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
