Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

Last night was pretty quiet. WW was kind of nice to be around. But when I asked her if she had read my letter and what did she think she replied "Yes I read it and that's all I'm going to say about it tonight".

Not sure what to think about that. She either knows she's busted in her "fake" plan to "try" to work on the marriage so she can stay in the house and save money for her planned exit or she's really planning on working on the marriage but doesn't like the fact that she's going to have to contribute to the effort to try and save the marriage.

Don't really know, don't really care. There is just such a great relief and sense of power coming from my not caring one way or another whether this works or not. I talked with DS19 last night and told him to not get his hopes up even though his mother told him she was going to try to work on the marriage. I told him the 4 things I have as boundaries and told him I didn't think that was too much to ask, but if WW is not willing to agree to those boundaries then I would ask her to leave. He agreed with me completely that the things I've asked from her should be no problem for her if she's serious about trying to make the marriage work.

I'll keep you posted if I get a response from her today.