yes it is early my H had ow for affair for really 2 yrs....SF 3 yrs....he is just now deepest in the tunnel...let him stay there yes with her the more you pull him out the more you PRO-LONG it. you have to stop calling! if he wants to file he will you cant stop and if dont want a D STOP bringing it up or he will.

please listen to what we have told you. we have all been there and are trying to save you some anguish...oh mu H bought a suzuki 1000cc MC and grew his hair out! an overweight 50 yr old!

Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest