Hey GD, I know what you're saying and my post above was not a "hate" type post. I don't hate my W. She wants me to leave my house. I'm not leaving till it's over. That's what I meant when I said "Why should I make it easy on her". I'm not being vindictive. I want to save my M. She wants no part of it.I know she's been in pain for a long time and I'm sorry I have done the things I have done. I can't go back and fix the past. I'm tryiong to be a better person now. I'm playing till the last whistle blows. She's spitting venom and hurling insults right now. I am taking the blows but not returning any punches. I'm doing what's right.