SG,

Busy, busy girl, good for you!!!!!

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Silly me, not wanting to get attached or anything, but feeling slightly miffed that no e-mail or contact from CG. Tho we do have plans for next week. Just after last week of constant excitement and fun, I am feeling a little bit of a let-down.

Anything wrong with sending him an email to get the ball roling? Or are you waiting to see how interested he is? Are the "rules" different at our ages than when we were younger?

I have heard women say they want the guys to slow down (not talking about physical action), not make it seem like they are anxious. In your case you are wanting contact so maybe there is validity to that approach.

On the other hand, we are who we are and if you meet guy where you think there might be chemistry and shared interest, why do you have to limit the amount of contact and draw out the getting to "know you" process?

I don't think I am one for "dating" multiple people but I do thing that when there is a lady friend who seems like a potential good match, I want to start to get to know them as quickly as she will allow it.

If I am in the starting stages of getting to know someone, I am cool with them reaching out to me because I can just get to know them better sooner.


Committed2Him- "C2H"
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