Please help me! Wife wants out! (5)

[steve477]

Thank Lan,

the asking for kisses, the bed hopping, the wanting to make gifts etc, etc. is all pursue, pursue persue, you don't need to do it

Bed Hopping lol. I went in last night as well. W didnt sleep well (neither did I as I was awake bit worried about her). So she was a tad grumpy this morning!lol. Said she couldnt sleep after she went to the toilet (when I joined her), as she had back ache, and was worried because the baby wasnt moving much. Also as she has slept alone for 4 months, she is not used to another body in the bed she says. Used to being able to stretch out. I can understand that. I sleep in the middle of `my` bed. Anyway I beat her to the punch, and said I thought she should have a couple of nights alone, so that she can catch up on sleep. I have laid some building blocks there. Can be like a welsh labourer now and come back to continue building in a couple of weeks.

I am getting better at diffusing potential landmines. As I said she was grumpy, but I changed the subject, went to do my jobs, and 5 minutes later she was back to being nice.
It seems some of the stuff I have read is going in.

Honestly you do not need to push anything at all cos W is slowly gravitating towards you. Patience man that all that is needed now.

Gravitating... I like that. Cant help the pull of Steve.

Sandi, you recommended the website `makeherhappy` to me, I do like it. I bought his book. Wondered if you had read it, had any opinions.

Where I would back you up though is no man touches the bump !!! End of story.

Thanks Lan, was wondering if I was being natural here or a bit `weird`. I dont think it right.

Definitely not cos it might kick off between us.

Is that fear of losing I detect??

Cheers

Steve